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Im a 33 year old female in North Dakota. My mother never wanted him in my life so he's never even seen my face (not like he wanted to anyway) I have only seen 1 photo of him standing on his 18 wheeler, my aunt destroyed. My mother has never been willing to help in my search, I'm certain she tries to sabotage it. What I do "know":
1. His name is Kurt or Kirk Allen Johnson
2. In 1984-1986 he was driving 18 wheelers
3. His birthday is in October or November
4. He's is tall like me. I've been told 6ft2in and 6ft6in.
5. If my mother is being honest she shot him in the foot and he lost 2 toes.

I don't want money, any explination, no appologies or sympathy and I do not want to push myself into his life. I simply want to see him face to face, I want to see him alive and well so I can take a picture and show my mother that 33 years of her hoping he was dead and trash talking him only hurt the way I felt and strengthened my desire to find him. There's nothing special for me to make him proud, I'm very much like my mother as many people have pointed out. Last month she finally told me some memories she has of him and it became clear to me that some things must be hereditary because I could relate. I'm not looking for the dad I never had (I had quite a few "dads" in and out of my life, not 1 has stuck around. Please help me find Kurt or Kirk, who is about 59/60 years old, hopefully still residing in the southern part of my home state of California. He was with my mother Gina Black for 1-3 years...
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